What to do...........This is "H's weekend" with the kids. D11's softball team is having an end of season party tonight. It is a family event. With circumstances the way they are, and H's current state, I told D that I probably would not go to the party. H e-mailed this morning and asked what time the party was. I told him, and then told him that I told D I would not be going. I told him I was guessing that he would be more comfortable without me there.

He just replied and said he wants me to go to the party. Says he really doesn't want to go to the party because D has tryouts this morning (3 hours) and with the party, it pretty much takes up the whole day. (Now this competitve team was HIS idea.....)

I'm so tired of playing the guessing game...........do I stay or do I go????????


Me 45
M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08
D 18, D 14, S 12