People generally are attracted to what they cannot get. This fact is gender neutral. They think there is something really good for them.

In that manner I am attracted to the chase. If the prize is what the world considers a catch then it's donated.

What I consider attractive is not the same as the world as physical looks or personality. Since it is my criteria it is what counts to me. The objective is to have fun and limit the downside. The cycles of drama are there as any relationship but one can be objective and not drift with the currents of emotion but use them so all can enjoy. Honesty with your motives, freedom with your actions, Respect for others wants and needs helps a lot.

There are areas this behavior does not apply as some posters allude to but I do not frequent those areas simply the cost/benifits do not stack up. Turning an accountant into a rescue swimmer probably would not have sense but the rescue swimmer need to the accountant to get paid.

Now past all that mind boggiling noise if you see something you consider hot to you.

It is.


"All I want is a weeks pay for a day's work"
Steve Martin