hmmmmmmmmm...... thinking here. Snooping yes is bad, I have done it myself in the past, but not for months, and I feel better for it. One of my goals is to never snoop again. Anyway ...
So he's still contacting LW as a friend, despite you asking him not to. The only way you know this is through snooping. I suggest not confronting him on this one, and making a commitment to give up the snooping. But ... how to get past this?
How about cheeleading? Tell him you're happy, that you appreciate his efforts and that you're really glad he listened to you and stopped non-work contact with LW, that you felt hurt by his contact with her, and now he's not doing it, even though it was probably something he didn't really want to stop doing, you're glad that he appreciates and respects you so much to do that for you.
What do you think? You can't control what he does, you can only put it out there and let him make his own decision.
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