Completely and utterly devastated--how to cope

[istherehope]

Thanks OD!

I leave in about an hour, so I'm glad I saw this first! I am so nervous about this meeting, as I am dying to ask him if he misses me, if he feels happy etc. It is going to be all I can do not to ask if I can move back now, but he specifically said he keeps thinking I am going to go back on giving him space, so I need to steer clear of this unless he brings it up. So instead I am going to ask the following:

1)How was your business trip last week? You mentioned that your boss gave you a really positive review. I'm glad to hear that your hard work is paying off. What do you see the future looking like at this company, and where do you hope to be in your role?

2)Depending on what he says here, I'm going to try and stick something in about how it makes sense to stick around here longer than originally planned if it's good for his career. This is sort of future talk, so I'll play it by ear...

3)How are the pets doing, and a few specific questions in case he wants to say that they miss me--very long shot

Thanks OD, and I'll post later today, with good news I hope.

ITH