I'm working on shortening the letter. There are actually a lot of things in the letter that I haven't said before, specifically the parts about being grateful to him for moving around the world for me. This was huge for him. However I will get the opinion of my DB coach before giving the letter. My DB coach will also have spoken to H, so she might be able to tell me if it is a good idea or not.
So maybe what I will do is see whether any of these topics sort of come up in a natural conversation, and see whether I get the opportunity to do things like express gratitude, or demonstrate that I appreciate his need for space, without initiating an R talk. We'll see, I'm not always the most subtle person.
Like I told Pisces though, I will post an update later this afternoon!
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
