Hi Mermaid, good to get an update. You sound as though you are ready to move on. I wish you joy and happiness.
I hope the house sells soon and for the price you want.
This struck a cord with me and I have seen it many times.

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At this point it does not seem he is even in mlc.


I think sometimes when we are in crisis mode and panic about what's happening,they react to us and its good to have a label for why they are doing these things. I do believe people have a rethink and change of direction for what is perceived as no good reason. I do believe in MLC but just get the feeling is is used way too often.

From reading many posts it becomes clearer (when you are years past your own drama) it is easier to see both sides and sometimes they just want out.

Yes all the newcomers is really sad. I came back and seem to have stayed too long. I get caught up sometimes in sheer disbelief about how some people live their lives.

Anyhow good luck to you, school preparations makes me sad in away 'cos here it signals summer is over, we maybe lucky and get an indian summer tho-lol I live in hope.