Hi to all of my old friends. I have been lurking and I have wanted to post for a long time. I do notice a lot of new names on here and it breaks my heart but so many good people giving support and advice.
Nothing really new in my stitch since the last time I posted. I am still married. We put our rental property on the market and the tenant moved out right away. The extra money I have had to pay for the mortgage has been very difficult. I can't wait until the house sells.
Communication between h and I has not been really great. A lot of it has to do with the fact that I don't see much of him. Anyway I emailed him and told him we needed to meet. To my surprise he agreed right away without even asking me why. I told him I could not afford the extra money. I even had whole thing written out about how I had been very easy with child support payments and therefore, he technically owed me but he was very understanding and said he would see what he could do. He is covering it for August. I cleared up some other issues.
Finally I asked him why he did not just get the legal stuff done. There is nothing left after the townhouse sells. He said he would when it sold. It seemed so strange, so business like.
He then started talking about other things like the ds and his new motorcycle. He even asked me about school and work. He also asked about my dad. He even referred to him as dad. Habit I guess.
At this point it does not seem he is even in mlc. But I could not say whether he is happy or not.
Other than my recent money issues I have been doing well. I need a social life however as I work weekends.
We did just come back from camping. The highway up to our original desination had a land slide so we went somewhere else. It was okay but we go there so often. As long as the kids liked it. But I am so over setting up tents and sleeping in tents. I am ready for some luxury hotels.
We are going away this Thursday as well but then it means it is all down hill. I have to get me and my girls ready for school.