I think we both used to post to CBK. I wonder about him. He does not post anymore. I would like to know how he is doing. He is in your neck of the woods in California I believe. Do you know anything of him?
Yes, I do. He's doing really well. Still mired in the ickiness of divorce, but he and I see each other fairly often. I'll see him tonight in fact.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
Yes, I do. He's doing really well. Still mired in the ickiness of divorce, but he and I see each other fairly often. I'll see him tonight in fact.
well, well congrats. Tell CBK I'm happy for him and you too. I hope the ickiness ends quickly..Please tell him Mike asks about him and I wish him well.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
Well, I knew it was real, but now it's really real. Our house went on the market today. Paid $545k for it 2.5 years ago; it's on for $479k. He's filing our papers on Monday.
What a waste. What a jerk.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09
OMG, I just hate this whole thing. First H wants a divorce, then I find out about the EA. He moves out. We are over. The week after I move out he "reconnects" with gal from EA and they are dating. Then last night someone called EA-gal's XH to tell him she was dating. Now he's making threats to her. H tries to get into my cell bill to see if it was me. (It wasn't.) Then he texts me to see if it was me.
Now I'm all worried that EA-gal's XH will find out who she is dating and confront him. When my kids are there.
What an arsehole my H is for putting us in this situation. AURGH!
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09