Well you could invite him out for his BD and then have cake at your place. I remember h's last bday, he said what's to celebrate. Our bdays are 5 days apart so we went out to dinner and then had dessert.

Our anniversary 9 years is coming up in 12 days. This is the 3rd one apart. This is getting old. H hasn't mentioned anything of recent, but he did say to the c that it was coming up and jokingly we might need an emergency session depending on how the anniversary went.

I am getting nervous. What really are we celebrating? That we are still together, but not living together? Grrrrrh!


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"