Steelers, Yes, I have been contemplating whether this is the best. I don't even know how to get the BD cake to him. I even thought of sending it by courier but that's probably pretty pricey to do. He likes this special cake (from cake mix) and he likes the way I make it best. Yes, it will certainly make him thinkand feel how he's made me feel. Yet, I am not trying to be vindicative at all.