You will get over him, but it will take time. I was with my first h for 17 yrs. I did eventually get over him, now I have been with current h for 13 yrs. Wow I see those numbers together and wonder was I ever on my own.

I am the type that I just wanted to get m, have kids and live happily ever after. I know some woman don't necessarily want this path, but me I knew what I wanted my whole life. It just seems that whoever I hook up with doesn't share that same philosophy.

Yeah I really thought my h would be back too, now after 2 years we have positives, but no announcement of honey I want to come home.

Through all the trials of my life I have come to realize that God is and always will be my ROCK!


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"