You will get over him, but it will take time. I was with my first h for 17 yrs. I did eventually get over him, now I have been with current h for 13 yrs. Wow I see those numbers together and wonder was I ever on my own.
I am the type that I just wanted to get m, have kids and live happily ever after. I know some woman don't necessarily want this path, but me I knew what I wanted my whole life. It just seems that whoever I hook up with doesn't share that same philosophy.
Yeah I really thought my h would be back too, now after 2 years we have positives, but no announcement of honey I want to come home.
Through all the trials of my life I have come to realize that God is and always will be my ROCK!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"