Sh I am just a few steps behind you and it does start to click they are not really moving anywhere our H They are stuck and we have no choice really but to move on even if we notice a real movement toward us ..we can then stop I still have door open but I am allowing the rest of grief to process through so hopefully I will be done with my emotional part I held on so long and I managed to pospone the finality and the grief( which really hurts) It is sad You are strong and you will be ok better things are coming peace
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