Just thought of something else.

I could ask my F to forward me H's e-mail. It doesn't go well with my intention to sit tight but it could clear things up a bit.

Or is it a bad idea?

I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders
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M 46
H 45
D 17
M/T 23
Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06
Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07
Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08