Supportive and Proud Weather She Likes it or Not!!

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Well turns out we are flying on Sunday so tomorrow is off. There is a Parents and Partners thing at the School. Since I was not going to be able to come my folks are going, if fact they will be here shortly then drive down there tomorrow. She said it was ok if I go, I was thinking that maybe a break would be good and I thought I had to work anyways.

Well I came home to an email today. She said was a bit worried because she needs some stuff done to her computer to make it work with the school. For as much as a gamer as she is, she is not computer savvy. I am pretty good and she knows this. She was emailing for help and hoping I was coming down tomorrow so that I could help her.

I am not sure if she wants to see me just to get help or not, but she thinks of me when she needs help and that can't be a bad thing.

so looks like the day off will be 4 hour drive, little event at the school, lunch few hours on the computer, then 4 hour drive back to get ready for Sunday. More chance to show good sides of me.

OK here is an issue that I could use some advice. About three weeks ago I stopped wearing my wedding ring. I never where it in the plane (at work half the time is on and half its not, so it’s not like I was a never take it off kind of guy) but it was not helping detach at all, it was a constant reminder of her and was killing me. I put it on when she was here, then ended up taking it off in front of her when I told her she could have a D. I have yet to put it back on.

I am wondering what signals that sends to her. Less pressure because I am your friend first and I know that, or I have given up as your H. ???? Racking my brain trying to decide weather or not to wear it tomorrow. It kills me to see her without hers and I am just wondering what kind of impact it may have on her. I am not seeking an impact either way I just don't want to hurt her or my cause by not wearing it, but I would rather not. Hope that makes sense.


Julia, the guys that do that type of flying on a team are very good because they practice it until they are blue in the face, but all the maneuvers that they do are ones that we all use everyday. They just clean them up and make them impressive for a crowd. By the way today was every bit as painful as I thought it would be