Went by and saw the W yesterday while I was in town working. She was really upset about D16 and some other things. She cried a few times, I just validated her and gave her a couple hugs. Then back to work.

I sent her a text later

"hope you are feeling better I worry about you"
W:I'll be find. just tired of fighting for my child. Tired of being the person I am. Thank you for being there and careing.

Me: welcome understand about D16 and you are a wonderful person
About an hour later W: No I'm not!

Me: Sorry you feel that way.

That ended there. So, I just went on with my day. Went to softball practice, picked up D11 to take her to stay the night and take her to day camp.

Last edited by yenko69; 08/09/08 12:24 AM.
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