Hi, I havent been her in awhile but now i am aggravated.

H and I have been getting along really well.

Today is his dad's bday . I texted him to wish him a happy bday from D7 and I .
He didn't answer so I texted are you ok///

I got this response:

It is also Sarah's bday and we are out celebrating. I dint hear the phone. Ill tell him

Now, H 1. NEVER mentions OW's name to me.
2. He was supposed to work today because he is going out on vacation next week.
3. H would NEVER let me know he took the day off ..espeacially because he claims he is broke and would not take a day for D7.

I responded.

H would never text me that. How sad and insecure. Happy Bday Sarah. Tell H to callme later when he is free. Have a good one.

I get a text back;

It's me , I took the day off.

I responded:

You have never or would have mentioned her name to me. Whatever.
I am so aggravated over this. He would never want me to know that he took the day off of work. And believe me he would never have used the word CELEBRATE!

We have been doing sooo well too.