I've never written letters to him in the past. I have written them in other relationships, but not to H, never needed to...I always sent loving emails etc., but he complained of a lack of intimacy, thought maybe that something like this would show my openness.
I guess I was hoping to leave it before I left so that he would have something to think about. My actions to date are that I have given him space, moved out, decided to leave the country, all of my own accord. Since talking to my DB coach, I have not cried or argued once. I just want him to know how different I think things can be, and he won't see this with me not here. I also thought (maybe deluded) that this letter showed how I was viewing the situation as a positive thing.
Would you suggest against it, or against even a shortened version of it?
Thanks! ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
