I'm new here, and this may have already been covered before, but I need to ask how you guys cope with hearing this statement "We are never getting back together". I have been told it a few times now and never know how to react,(aside from making the sounds of a heart raising 10 inches and chocking me to death). I'm never sure whether she really means it or not, or if she believes it or not. I know that many people on here would have had to have heard it at some point, but is there still hope? can we (as a couple) recover from that? how should you react to hearing that that is how they feel? and has anyone triumphed and won back the"non-believer"? I need to know that maybe sometime there will be hope, coz' although i am prepared to do this for as long as it takes, and i'm prepared for the best and the worst, I'd still like to know what I might be getting into, regardless the outcome.


t7-years
m3-years
Me:22
W:27
Wifes kids (love them like my own)
D-10
D-7
Our Kids
S-3

W has depression
Separated-14/07/08

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