aiming for a new me 10

[glamgirl]

Now it sounds like you had a good day with h and then not. What happened the next day is that you wanted to talk about R. I don't think your h is ready.

Things are going pretty good for me and my h, but I still can't talk about R. He just gets angry and walks out or says if your done then your done. Let's get a D. He says he will talk when he is ready. Call it a control thing or he just can't right now, I don't know.

For you, do you need the talk right now? Could you try to rebuild and connect without the talk right now? Do you need closure right now or movement in the m?

What am I saying is, can you try not to focus on the R, but on re-connecting. Once your h starts to shift how he is feeling towards you and the m he may want to open up and talk.

Can you wait for that to happen?