thank you so much Mink. I realy value your inout. I still have the " cheet sheet" you made me. I am sometime very afraid she is trying to force my hand i a D because she knows she has done nothing to make it better and now wants to look like the victim still.
Well my W met me today at the bank to get the truck in her name. She was a half hour late. When it was all over I gave her a check for half of what was left in the old account even though she didn’t deposit any in there for a month. She told me since we are separating this we should also talk about “moving along” with the D. I told her point blank “ W this is YOUR decision to make you know were I stand” she looked at me for a few seconds and said she just doesn’t look at me the same way, she doesn’t have it in her to get back together so I relied “ again this is YOUR decision to make if you want to move along to be happy so be it I wish you the best but YOU need to make that choice. I will not put my life on hold for you but for now I do love you very much and I want this to work but if YOU don’t then YOU need to make that choice.”
And that was that I find out next week if she gets a co-signer and we split the cells next week as well.
