I looked at a bunch of gForce's posts. Good reading!
Small update:
Things just continue to get better for Minkerman and the missus.
It's the really small things that I notice the most. Like, we went for a walk along the river after dinner. She grabbed my hand, and we held hands for the entire walk. She gives me really nice touches when we're cooking dinner. She kisses me 'good morning'.
There's also a bigger thing she's doing now. Spontaneously telling me she loves me, and she says it with such feeling. It is awesome!
I can't believe we almost went our separate ways. I DB'd my arse off and started acting like a decisive, confident man with his own life, instead of an approval-seeking wuss.
Whatever we did, it seemed to work, and we are back in the saddle and better than ever.