OK, h emailed back this again blaming me for everything and acting like the kids are 5 year olds or something: Again i have never brought up having a gilfriend nor have i ever refered to anyone as being my girlfriend around the kids, You are the one who made this an issue that the kids have had to deal with. It will only be an issue for them if you once again make the kind of offensive inaproriate remarks that you have made on prior occasions. I have to leave in 10 minutes to take kids to swim lessons, and need to pack an overnight bag for them so sent this so hopefully it's not too awful. What do you guys think? I sent this: Actually, S14 knew that was your girlfriend; he's almost 15 and is a smart boy. I have always considered your feelings and consulted the kids' therapist before making these kind of decisions. So again I would still insist that you don't expose the children to your girlfriend while we are still married, and I hope you'll strongly consider that, for the sake of the kids. And isn't he the biggest jerk on the planet!!! Karen