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#1549456 08/07/08 02:50 PM
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Went to a baseball game with friends (Yankees suck!), and got a text on the way out "Wanna be sweet on me tonight?"

We had a nice talk and she fell asleep. This morning I had four (count 'em) voicemails, and a "good morning sexy" text. My phone was off this morning, dangit! Need to call her now.


In other news, anniversary is Monday Aug. 19th, and if we're still on I should be in Houston that weekend. Probably just take the day off. Could be awkward, could be good...


Me: 30
W: 28
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S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
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Me: 30
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W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
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"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
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Talked again last night, so that's still continuing. She's definitely warming up a lot. She sent me a newsletter and article from http://www.bebroken.com and I thanked her and subscribed to it.

Then an e-mail:
"How are you so receptive to help now? I sent a link to you about this site, 2 years ago.

That's your e-mail password?"


I'm getting used to questions like this. Just keep validating and apologizing. I think she was asking for my e-mail password, I responded for clarification. Don't think I'll make that mistake again, last time she went in and deleted all of her old e-mails (I'd saved them in a folder). I'm still really PO'd about that, those are some of my greatest memories. Very b*tchy thing to do.

Depositing a check from our health insurance company today. Finally!


Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
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Good happenings Jon. Very good happenings.

Keep up the good work.


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LOVE your sig, Floyd. I'll check out your thread...


Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
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"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
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Jon sounds like VERY positive interaction there! I am so happy things are going well for you!


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Well, I thought it was positive. Now W is ticked because she thought the insurance check should be $1200 instead of $200. She sounded really worried, like she was really planning on that money. Sorry babe, a little more reality for ya! ;\)

In other news, W is having all her furniture delivered to her new house next week. It's been in storage in Dallas until now. She of course didn't need it at her parents house, and her new place has been bare until now. I'm a bit sad about this, because it would've been a lot easier for her to come back before. "Come back, all your stuff's still here anyway!" Oh well.


Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
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(((Sigh))) give it some time. You have to remember that she was counting on being happy, and although I am sure she misses you, she might need to see what life is like on her own for a while. It could just be a growing experience that she needs to go through


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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Wow. In response to the e-mail password question, I get:

"you decided i didn't need my privacy. why shouldn't i have your password?"

Freakin' BS. I'm so ticked off right now. Texting another guy right in front of me, not even trying to hide it, and I invaded her privacy? There are a few choice words I want to write...

But I need to respond. How about:

W,
Last time I gave you my e-mail password, you deleted all of our old e-mails. Regardless of what happens, those will always be some of my favorite memories. I'm sorry, but I can't trust you with that again right now.


Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
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I don't know. I knew all of my H's email passwords, and I never used them until the night he said enough...and then I found the pix of him and the XOW. But frankly, I don't see the point. Regardless of whether you are married or not, you do deserve privacy, of course unless you are trying to resolve an OP sitch. But I don't understand why she would need your p/w


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..

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