Still keeping an eye on you, Marcum ;\)

Sounds like you're handling this pretty well.

But....

Start thinking hard about what life would be like without your W, because it's quite possible it could go that way. The positive changes you have made will only help you, going forward. With or without her.

Are you setting goals? No matter how small, they are important. If you are setting goals and they are not being met...then, well, you have to ask yourself if you are willing to stay on this path.

It's OK if you do, but equally OK if you don't. It doesn't make you a bad person.

Only you will know when you have had enough.

Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!