cinders i hope your had a good vacation and please be careful when you spend the week with your husband. i dont think it is a good idea at all and i think it will confuse the children and will give you false hope. this is not a contest between you and the ow anymore. your husband made choices for his life.let it go please.but take my opinion for what it is worth.
Happy you are right. He has made choices and it is no longer a contest. It may never have been to be honest. I cannot cancel the 3 days we will spend in France as a 'family' it would hurt the kids even more, but I will go with all your advice in my heart. I had a wonderful holiday that showed me there is so much more. I am awakening and my life is a flower about to bloom...thank you for trying so hard to help us out of the 'spin-cycle' !
Love to you and Allie. May God bless you both.
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus