Ah, I see what you mean. Yeah, he definitely did want to stay longer and talk longer, but why? What does he want? I don't think he has any idea. At this point our "meetings" are such a joke as they never go anywhere. I've done way more work than he has on the legal stuff, and my work was only to protect myself.
I just don't know if I should only show honest happiness & confidence all the time or allow some honest vulnerability to show (and both of those are real facets of my personality right now), because, besides his anger/resentment that led to feeling distant/not loving towards me, the main problem is he feels bad about himself and thinks I will be better off without him. Well, if I show him what looks like me being completely better off without him, isn't that helping to convince him of that more?
I'm just unsure of the line I should walk here, cause I think it's really fine, and different than other people's sitches b/c of our unique situation.
It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb
