I can utterly second the Praying Wife, it kept me completely sane during my marriage. It takes the focus off yourself to try and 'fix' your H. It's a life-changing book, it really is.
Thinking of you today Niki. Hope work was ok today.
Me:36 M:16 D final: 08/09 Ds:10&5 Ss:8&3 Bomb 3xPA 200 sexual encounters 15/06/08