Jon - thanks for your encouragement. I just struggle to see him as my H any more, I feel he's chosen a R with someone else, he's ended our M and I just don't want to be the ow in any way shape or form. I guess it's a bit of 'I've experienced the hurt that ows have caused me, I'm not going to do that to someone else'.
Me:36 M:16 D final: 08/09 Ds:10&5 Ss:8&3 Bomb 3xPA 200 sexual encounters 15/06/08
