How do I escape that? I just carry on. It does get easier. He is on my mind but it has not eaten me alive. I try not to dwell on it. I have my own life to live and I have lots of responsibilities and other things to do. When you are mom and dad, there is lots to be done.
And yes, I do get out once in awhile for a lunch date with a good friend.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19