LOL.. nope goto the gym alot, so always hungry.. so wife cut my hair at her shop ( she hates it because i started doing the buzz cut) .. i gave her a nice big tip and on my way.. to me there is nothing there at all anymore, the way she looks at me , it';s hard to describe, i truly think that if i decide it's done, it'll be done, and I will be just fine with that. Kind of sad actually, but life isn't fair, and i am quite a different guy than I was. She did ask " Oh when does your raise kick in? Does it mean u can take over the house alone?" Thing is I don't even know if I want such a big house alone.. 2300 Square feet is a lot of space for 1 person... anyways hope all are having a good day! Off to the pain er... gym
Sawks - I know the look. My H looks at me and I see nothing in his eyes----but pain, maybe. He looks empty and lost. He definitely does not look happy.
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12
Sawks - I know the look. My H looks at me and I see nothing in his eyes----but pain, maybe. He looks empty and lost. He definitely does not look happy.
Yep my wife doesn't look happy, but who knows.. ahh well..
They are dealing with a lot of emotions, and none of what happens when they drop the bomb is as simple as they expect. So they are confused and unhappy and miserable.
Oh well!
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
They are dealing with a lot of emotions, and none of what happens when they drop the bomb is as simple as they expect. So they are confused and unhappy and miserable.
Oh well!
I remember this very wise woman who will someday give us all legal advice telling me this: our WAS expected to be happy because they left. Now, they aren't, but we are doing well, and it is a blow to their ego. I mean, look at all of us. We are a bunch, and we are SURVIVING and doing well for the most part. Sure, we have our ups and downs, but we are okay. Your W is the same...she probably wonders how come he gets to be happy? He didn't want this in the first place!!! But I am still miserable?
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
They are dealing with a lot of emotions, and none of what happens when they drop the bomb is as simple as they expect. So they are confused and unhappy and miserable.
Oh well!
I remember this very wise woman who will someday give us all legal advice telling me this: our WAS expected to be happy because they left. Now, they aren't, but we are doing well, and it is a blow to their ego. I mean, look at all of us. We are a bunch, and we are SURVIVING and doing well for the most part. Sure, we have our ups and downs, but we are okay. Your W is the same...she probably wonders how come he gets to be happy? He didn't want this in the first place!!! But I am still miserable?
I told my mom this morning that i hope our house sells and i get get my own space.. it's getting old seeing the W everyday in a way.. everyday that passes I lose a little more interest in her.. weird?
I told my mom this morning that i hope our house sells and i get get my own space.. it's getting old seeing the W everyday in a way.. everyday that passes I lose a little more interest in her.. weird?
No, not weird. I feel the same way. You gotta remember that she is a source of hurt and pain to you so of course you're going to see her flaws and they'll become bigger than the image of who she was when you were in love with her.
