do you just ignore it when you W goes overboard? she probably knows how you feel about this...
Pretty much....she knows what she does. IN fact she is usually harder on her self. I also don't cut her any slack......being hung over is not an excuse to not help with the kids (occassionaly I give her a free pass). Often she complains about not being able to loose weight and now I just say "well you kow what is causing that......"
It has been a while since she has taken things out on me which makes it easier. Also the other thing that I built resentment towards was, she would always get real amourous and make lots of suggestions, but when it came time for action she would be passed out.
For a while everytime we got to go out as a couple since having the kids it was the same story.....have a good time, nice food, a few drinks (she would have a bunch more), we would drive home and she was asleep 15 minutes into the ride. The last several times it was similar story but she has taken my "needs" into consideration which has made it a lot nicer. No more resentment
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
