I found some yummy cheese!

[pisces9]

wow- thanks TD..sounds like you khow what im talking baout. i know that him drinking too much every now and again will happen- and now he is VERY aware of it...im sure ther will still be times when it happens BUT he will know how i feel about it and i dont need to say anything. just take care of myself.

as for kids- no we never talked about it really bc we met when i was 21..i was way into him and not worried about the kid thing..neither was he. He started warming up to the idea in the past year...but there seemed to always be something lingering. i think it was just his unhappiness...so now it will be a new M and he will let me know...

so that takes care of that! i dont want to bring up issues and rehash everything. but i dont want to bury my head in the sand either.

do you just ignore it when you W goes overboard? she probably knows how you feel about this...