I found some yummy cheese!

[pisces9]

TD- well he would go out and get SH*T faced every month or so (with me or without me)...it became a problem bc he couldnt stop after a lot of drinks...then i would feel unsafe and then get snappy and that didnt ever go well with drunk person..the final straw was 2 nights before the bomb..he danced with a chick (cop chick mind you) frm work who was all over him- right in front of me...i never dance w other guys ever and he never dances with OW ..so this was just 40 beers deep behavior (in vegas)....he has talked about it a lot since the sep actually. so maybe my q is answered..he has said he needs to stop when i stop and limit his drinking..he has actually showed me by his actions that he means it..he even talked to me a few weks ago about not going with his work peeps to a b-ball game bc too much drinking...

i guess i have to realize he will get blasted once in a while and thats ok- but i need to set things up for my safety- like take a cab home when he wants to stay out til 6 am, not ever argue when he drinks, etc.

i am not sure if he has a problem- but i know he does binge drink a bit too often and im very sensitive to it bc my fam has alc issues...