Most of you probably don't remember me. I went through a divorce in 2004 with my now ex-wife. She was a LD partner and I was HD. I read SSM and tried to convince her to do the same. She never would. Months would pass and there was little to no physical contact between us. One day, I decided I had enough and I left. Never to return. We were divorced very shortly after that.
Fast forward to today and I have re-married and my new wife of 2 years is a WONDERFUL, BEAUTIFUL, INTELLIGENT, UNBELIEVABLE woman. She's everything I deserve in a partner both sexually and emotionally.
I came here just to see some of my old posts as I have a friend who's having hard times with his girlfriend. I thought I'd grab a few articles from this website that I found helpful back then.
What I've come to realize after my visit here is this... I don't recognize the person that posted all those messages 4-5 years ago. I've read a bunch of my old posts and I don't even know who that guy is.
So for those of you out there struggling in an SSM or those with a WAS. Do yourselves a favor, and start living your life for yourself. Get out there and get a life. Laugh. Hug your kids and spend QUALITY time with them. Don't just use them for a distraction. The only person you can change is you. And the sooner you do that, the better off you'll be.
