What i do with the kids is my business. i have never made a big issue about having a girl friend with them that has always been something you have done. But for your screaming diatribes they would not even know about it. I will have any friend i want around while i do things with the kids. i have not nor would i do anything inappropriate around the kids.
The screaming he is talking about is true, I yelled about the girlfriend, and think I called her slut and tramp a few times the first week or 2 before I started Dbing really seriously. But he is crazy as you know he would mention her all the time! Here is a rough draft of my reply--what changes do you think I should make??? Well that is not true. You would tell D8 you had dinner with your girlfriend she told me and other things like that, texting your girlfriend in front of the kids, etc. I also believe it is inappropriate to have your girlfriend around the children while we are married, but will also consult with my therapist and lawyer when they get back in town. S14 realized it was your girlfriend he told me and so I think by you telling them she's just a friend he realizes you aren't being truthful which I don't think is healthy either. Please consult with your therapist. Obviously I don't care about any friends that you have around the children if they are being appropriate, but a girlfriend when someone is married is not the same. Of course I really wish I could reply back something like: You make me sick, you big slutty sleazebag!!!!
