NLT how do you know so much about ow? How long have her m's lasted and does she have any kids?

Your xh's new m does seem rushed. She could have been putting pressure on him, but your xh made a choice and naej is right you can't sit around and think about him now.

He has another life now whether it lasts or not.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"