NLT maybe getting involved with a D recovery group or just any acitivity groups would be good for you right now.

Meet some new friends, you will need to go on with your life and it would be nice if you could do that with some new friendships.

If I am understanding correctly this is # 3 M for your xh too. If so this could be a pattern for him too.

I don't really know how to let go, but a website that has helped me was divorceasfriends.com

Keep yourself busy, so you don't find yourself sleeping all day or being depressed. This would not be good for you right now.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"