I told FW many of the same things you have said in this letter early on.

They do hear it, but at this time it won't make a difference, or it will seem like it doesn't.

FW would never respond when I said things like that to him. He later told me it was because I was right about a lot of things and he didn't want to hear or admit to it at the time.

You did no harm, IMO. Now it's off your chest and you can move on.

BFM

There is only one person who could ever make you happy, and that person is you.
David Burns, Intimate Connections