this is what I replied back to W on my time with my kids...
"I decided to take the kids down to my parents at the xx. They are not here and went back to xx for a week. I decided to do this on Monday, so it's not something I have had planned for awhile. We will be home on time on Sunday. I felt like doing this because none of the kids friends are around and they really enjoy it at the beach. There is much to do here and we can stay busy.
I dont understand where the 'competition' idea comes from. Your comments make me feel like your looking into me or dont trust me. I'm just trying to be busy with them and enjoy my time with them as much as possible.
Our kids are fabulous and I wish we were raising them together. We wish you were part of our experiences. You know how I feel and I wish you could see the effort I'm putting into my kids is also possible with you. If thats competition, then yes, I'm willing to work hard for this. I'd like to write a million things, but I'll leave it at that."
she responded with this...It's clear to me she doesnt want to engage in any sort of R talk. She certainly doesnt reinforce that she trusts me either. It's a cold reply I think. She just wont even come near the 'work on it' mode at all.
"I'm sorry I made the competition comment. And glad that you are doing fun things with the kids. That is important.
I am not checking up on you....just want to know where the kids will be. That is all.
