"I am asking that you not take the kids along with you and your girlfriend or have the kids spend time with you and your girlfriend while we are still married. I am almost certain that the therapist and my attorney will agree that is not emotionally healthy for the kids; you may want to ask yours as well. Thanks."
OK, done--I copied and pasted it and sent it (sorry I didn't give you credit Puppy)!!!! Oh, wow!! You know how I hate confrontations/stuff like this. I like everything to be friendly and light--and I guess H takes advantage of that when he can (which lately seems like a lot)! Thanks, so much Kat, LO, and Puppy--I don't know what I would do without my friends here (aka therapists, legal team, and major emotional support)!!!! (Those are happy grateful tears!) Karen