It means NOTHING. As long as she's with OM, she's in a fog -- her brain's awash in loooove chemicals.
What is your wife's LL? How important IS your friendship to her? I did tell my wife that if she chose to end our marriage that way (having an affair, and refusing to end it and try to work on our marriage for some defined period of time), that I had NO INTENTION of ever being her "best friend" again, or even a particularly good one. We could be civil, and co-parent, but that was all.
