OK how about? I would appreciate it if you would not take the kids along with you and your girlfriend or have the kids spend time with you and your girlfriend while we are still married. My lawyer and the kids' therapist is out of town at this point, but I am pretty sure that the therapist will agree that is not emotionally healthy for the kids. I will consult with the therapist and lawyer when they return and let you know. Thanks. And thank you guys, too!!! Karen