If you are always so available, each time he calls or stops by to visit he doesn't have to ever worry about losing you. He knows you are just waiting there.....for him.
This is not about punishment this is about your sanity.
Look at yourself today, you are a mess, crying and stressed out because he is in a mood.
You have not detached, because you are allowing his bouts of stupidity to get to you.
IF you were detached you would just say, oh well, whatever, when he calms down he will be in touch. You would not allow his mood swings to get to you.
Where is your line in the sand drawn?
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
