trying to be patient and strong

[karen43]

I would just leave it at something like:

I have serious concerns about the kids being around your girlfriend while we are still married. I am asking that you do not do this until after the divorce is final. Thank you

So, then if he does it anyway, you have proof that it's not something you are ok with. THen, when your lawyer gets back, he/she can file a motion that does not allow any contact.

I hope so! What gets me is a week or 2 ago H is acting all concerned about the kids mental health b/c there is an old wedding picture of us in the house. He emailed me 2 or 3 times about that saying I need to check with the C and all. And then he takes the kids out on a date with the OW!!! He's gotta be crazy don't you think? Doesn't that seem crazy??? Karen