K (D23) just called me sobbing. She's so upset about everything, hates herself, her life, etc........
She's so upset that XBF is hurting. She is a very compassionate person and knowing that he's hurting and in his apt just 2 floors up from her is very upsetting to her.
I did my best to calm her down and she does understand that him pushing her was over the top but she doesn't understand how their R has come to this. Unfortunately, most of us here get it......
She's concerned about money, school, health insurance, our R, etc. I told her, let's concentrate on the stuff we can do something about which is all of the above.
One thing I do have to focus on is that she said that she doesn't like what she's become....I think she has some things to come clean on to me and it probably has to do with things that she hasn't lied about but hasn't been upfront about either. Sound familiar, Bethie?
This behavior is so unlike K. She's usually so happy, positive, upbeat and fun. That's the 50% she gets from me. Unfortunately, the 50% she gets from her Dad seems to be prevailing at the moment. Have I mentioned lately that I don't like him?
She wanted to come home for the weekend but knew I had plans so now she's worried that my cell won't work in the woods. I assured her that if she left a message I would get to civilization several times a day to make sure she was OK.
Outta here.........hopefully!!!! Have a great weekend everyone.
