Escaping the Backstreets on the Lake Erie Shore

[Neilh23]

[ but if you don't give your wife some space, she won't have a chance to work things out in her head. She won't have a chance to miss you.

She is confusing you because she is confusing herself. Give her time/space to think things out.

hope..thanks for yoru input. the missing me thing is the toughest thing becuase right now we see each other just about everyday, as the kids are with me in the mornings while she is teaching summer school. However, next week is the last week for that and soccer starts up for me. perhaps then. i know i need to stop saying certain things to her...such as just about every nite i say "call me if you need something".....IDK why i do it all the time. She knows she can. it's weird.

she seems confused because she's confusing herself, huh? interesting. but i'm going to keep doing what i've been doing..being her friend...and father to her kids....the best things going for me right now