IRMAT,

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he did always complain about the not having enough sex issue so I guess that was and has always been an issue...


So, while your Husband is off in la-la land, how about you start making some changes.

If your Husband complained about the lack of sex in your relationship, I am sure he also complained about other things too.

MLC or not he probably had some valid points.

Just so you know, every single one of us here contributed in some way to the demise of our Marriages.

It is your responsibility to work on your own issues.

It is between your Husband and God to work on your Husband's issues.

You can pray for him, and you can love him from a distance, but that is all.

You are not his Mother and you can not tell him how to live his life, regardless of how immoral or wreckless it is.

So, now back to you....

Let's start making those changes.

(((hugs)))

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.