I meant to add that if you are seeing progress, even if it is small baby steps, this is a positive. But how you choose to deal with this whether that means taking your C's advice or being still for now, is up to you.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19