hope.... probably the best thing you can do is demand respect. settle for nothing less. Say "i'll not let you treat me this way. I am a human being and i deserve respect" and walk away. It might provoke a fight, it might not. You have every right to demand respect from your H. Remember too that this is a roller coaster, so perhaps you can just go with the flow...
and if you get a second....please check out my developments...i'm confused about my W...LOL..big surprise there...
ME:32 WAW:31 D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2 Together: 13 M:6 Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08 Sep legally: 6/18/08
"Tommorrow there'll be sunshine, and all this darkness past..." -Bruce Springsteen Land of Hope and Dreams