Wow Trusting that is a lot of money. What was he buying? Keep doing what you are doing. Your h seems to be interested, dipping his toes in the water, but not wanting to take the plunge.

This will be a slow journey.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"